My boyfriend’s ex recently called to tell him that she’s a better woman than I am.
I’ve been in a relationship with this guy for three years.
My boyfriend’s ex [recently] called him and told him that she is better than me.
I really don’t understand if we are doing competition [over him] or something.
Please I just need advise, what will I do?
Don’t for one second take out your frustrations or curiosity on the other woman. The only person you have a business with is your boyfriend.
And it’s high time you asked him to cut all ties with that woman. You should insist on it, as a matter of fact.
It’s no longer OK for your boyfriend to stay in contact or even be friends with such person. Her very presence in his life now puts your relationship under threat and undermines your position as the bae.
If your boyfriend keeps being friends with her, entertaining those remarks and whatever stuff she might have to say about you, he’s simply not respecting you enough.
This should not be reason to break up immediately. But if over time the pattern continues, it might be.
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